“When all is said and done …. Two wrongs do not make a right…. And revenge is a sin in itself, the best revenge is forgiveness … Cause until you forgive, you are holding God back from His Vengeance. In layman’s terms as long as you hold onto the transgression you hold God powerless…. Let go and let God “~ A Facebook ‘friend’
“no matter what someone says or does to you. stand your ground and dont do or say anything to hurt them or put them down. Remember GOD DOESNT LIKE UGLY and he will ‘get them’!!” ~ A different Facebook ‘friend’
I have a few Facebook ‘Friends’ who, when they go through anything remotely challenging, blow up everyone’s news feed with cryptic messages about their tribulations on their favorite social networking medium. And they post this kind of….stuff. Yeah, that word will do, I guess.
Two wrongs don’t make a right. Heard that one all my life. And it’s true. It’s the rest of that stuff that gets under my skin. I know everybody reacts differently to being hurt. Some people are hurt at the smallest perceived slight and others it takes quite a bit for them to get to the point that they are aggrieved by continual abuses.
Regardless, if you take the position that revenge is a sin, wouldn’t wishing vengeance on said foe be a sin as well? Isn’t that what’s happening here? And do people really believe that God is that weak? Or that powerful for that matter? Is your lack of forgiveness all that’s holding God back from the revenge you wish to see inflicted but believe would be a sin to personally inflict? What is the difference?
Me, personally, don’t care about revenge. I don’t think it has anything to do with it being a sin. It’s a personality thing. If you hurt me it’s my choice whether or not to forgive. I don’t think it’s a sin not to forgive (I’d have to believe that there is such a thing as sin). If you inflict undeserved pain on another you have no right to expect forgiveness.
But, if God is an all-powerful, all-knowing, all-present entity, is it possible to hold him back from anything he chooses to do? There’s irony in believing in a powerful being who can vanquish your foes and believing you are more powerful than he. What’s more I find it odd to believe that God is your hit man. Unfortunately I know so many Christians who honestly believe this. And they believe that they are offering forgiveness by ‘making nice’ all the while praying for their God to “get them!!”