Is that a whole forest over there? Or is it just trees? I can hardly tell the difference.
I, myself, have been guilty of saying that political correctness can go too far. It can be taken to extremes. But is it political correctness that is taken to extremes or is it that we are trying to tip toe around delicate issues to the extent that we don’t want to hurt anyone’s wee wittle feelings at the expense of honesty?
My last post shone a spotlight on what it means to miss the point. It is easy to spot sexism, misogyny, racism, homophobia, etc….etc…etc…
…in everyone else. We tend to have a gargantuan blind spot when it comes to ourselves. I am no exception to that. Oh, how I wish I were.
We often try to justify it when we say or do something inappropriate, hurtful, or uncouth. When we’re called out on it we get defensive and immediately begin the damage control. Human nature rules the day. When we say it or do it we want everyone else to know how “not racist” or “not sexist” or “not homophobic” we are. We’d never!
But we just did. How to reconcile momentary lapses of judgement with personal character…well, that is the rub, isn’t it?
Are we missing the big picture? The broader concept of what’s being said is completely lost the minute we begin rationalizing our own behavior. We can’t see the forest for the trees.
These posts are not meant to either endorse nor condemn any particular lifestyles or life choices. These posts are meant to highlight both the blatant and subtle sexist and misogynist undercurrent that permeates society.
Let me make this clear if I haven’t already. I think men are as much a product of society as women are. The way they were raised, the messages we receive from the media and advertisements, the systematic undermining of minority groups and those perceived as weaker – all of that plays into the dynamics of society. The top dog wants to stay the top dog all the while protesting that they endorse equality.
Oh, yes, we endorse equality. As long as it doesn’t diminish our own privileged place. But wait, equality might just mean that privilege isn’t so much a privilege anymore. It might mean…we are all of equal value as individuals.
This is an easy concept to say one is in favor of. Yes, on paper that looks like it should, in fact, be so. But what about individually? Do we, with our own sense of entitlement, push anyone who dares gain an equal footing back down? Are we, individually, missing the point?